The fact that men and women are different can’t be more sucked. A lot of people say that half of the world is men. And it’s true! But do you know what it could mean by that? That means we have to struggle with half of the people in the world! We are living in the world that we can’t obviously avoid each other and can’t help facing each other. The figure that we keep going wrong is just so much annoying as trying to mix up water and oil in a pot.
If you look up the book ‘Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus’, you could see how they are different. Just like what the title says, what this book is keeping 
saying is the importance of admitting the difference between each other.
saying is the importance of admitting the difference between each other.Women and men are different like people from different other country. People from different country have different thought, different idea and different language. So if we want to communicate with the people from other county, we have to study their culture and language. It’s pretty interesting idea to think about that woman and men are using their own language.
Men say directly what they want to say and usually that means nothing more than that. However, Women are used to putting more implications on what they are saying. And to figure out what that mysterious meaning is, is what men are supposed to do. If a guy says he is okay, that really means he is okay with it. But when a girl says she is okay, sometimes that doesn’t mean she is okay. So this fact makes woman start to bugging man to know what’s going on to him, even though he is alright. Or sometimes woman are frustrated by man for not bugging herself. Then, she thinks he doesn’t care about me enough while he thinks she is alright.
What’s interesting is that woman’s implications do something more than we could probably imagine sometimes. I find the book ‘He is just not that into you’ pretty interesting as a reader but annoying as a women. The writer says that women think there is something more in what men said, just like women themselves. Therefore women start to interpret what they said which actually means nothing more than literally it is.
It seems like women’s language do some kind of role like ‘self-defense mechanism’. For not being hurt by a guy, women interpret man’s action in the way she wants to understand, so that she can be alright with that situation. So she thinks it was not an “actual” no which was a real no. It’s amazing to see how genius women are to make excuses for not being bumped. Again, as a woman I hate this book! I really hate the fact that the author is a guy. I felt like being naked or something during reading. Got so annoyed by that!! Ahhhh!!
So what I wanted to say is that since women and men are different like oil and water, it’s really important to admit the fact that they can’t be mixed! You can’t just keep stirring oil and water until they get mixed. Because they won’t be! It’ water and oil. Just admit it! Do you know what makes oil and water mixed? Yolk! A yolk of egg will do :) when you just regard them different you might get some sense to put yolk in that pot. If we can’t stop facing each other as women and man, why don’t we try ‘the yolk of understanding’? Let’s study each other and learn each other’s language! Let’s just give it a try :]
